2. Fun Fact: one of my absolute favorite movies of all time is Look Who's Talking. The summer I was 26 it was available OnDemand for free and I watched it 1,589,364 times. I was living in a closet-sized apartment in the Back Bay. I'd walk to Bangkok Blue on Boylston Street and get Drunken Noodles, go next door to Store 24 and get a liter of Evian, and walk home to sit on my bed in my nightgown and eat my spicy food and chug water and watch Look Who's Talking. It was literally my favorite thing in the entire world to do. I met Olympia Dukakis a few years ago because the agency I work for gave her an award and I planned the awards ceremony, and I nearly passed out from excitement because she plays the grandmother in Look Who's Talking. Anyway, it popped into my head last night and now I'm dying to watch it. I think this scene is one of the sweetest, most romantic things that has ever happened in the history of movie-making.
3. I said "no" a lot this week. This is something I've been REALLY bad at for a REALLY long time and I'm sick of it. No mas. A couple days ago I typed up a list of my things to say no to, put on my big girl pants, and sat down for 30 mins and sent all of the NOs out. A few of them backfired and were terrible, but saying no felt pretty luxurious; like your ear popping when you have a really bad cold. Does anyone else struggle with this? I hate hurting feelings. It's funny, I was talking to a new friend last night about a time where I got back together with an ex-boyfriend I really didn't like all that much. I didn't dislike him. I just... didn't like him? We reconnected and went out for a drink, and I sort of thought it was just a nice time catching up. Nope. He came at me with all of the feelings. All of them. So I proceeded to date him FOR A YEAR AND A HALF OF MY LIFE, because I couldn't hurt his feelings and say no. I'm going to work on this "no" thing because I'm pretty sure all of the "no" I've avoided saying over the years has gotten in the way of a few yes's. I don't know what the plural of "yes" is. I've only had two sips of coffee and I just can't look into it right now. Sorry.
4. My friend Katie has pretty excellent taste. She introduced me to the kale salad at Cinquecento and the vinyasa scarf, and she is as passionate about the Bristol Lounge at the Four Seasons as I am, so when she says something is terrific, I tend to listen. This week she RAVED about this new 305 Fitness thing that recently arrived in Boston. Apparently it's a fusion of dance and high-intensity interval training, it's REALLY loud, and there's a live DJ in every class. Sold. I'm trying it tomorrow morning. It's at the David Barton gym near the Park Plaza if you're interested.
5. Do you ever get the sense that you're at a moment in your life where you're surrounded by the very best people and you want to freeze time and keep them right where they are and as they are forever? I felt that way all week. From overhearing a co-worker's phone call at the tail end of the day about her broken refrigerator where she was so firm but elegant but feisty it made me smile, to bearing witness to a good friend's absolutely spectacular road rage in a very rainy traffic jam, to taking the BodyPump class of a ridiculously talented young lady who used to take my BodyPump classes, to running into my dad at the library in my neighborhood and seeing him look so content, I just wanted to hug everyone this week. If you're reading this, I probably wanted to hug you, too.
Have a good weekend, all.